In this episode of the Handcrafted Therapies Podcast, host Julie Alexander is joined by Brendan, a recent graduate of Kikino Massage School. They tackle the difficult and potentially triggering topic of sexual misconduct, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community and the massage therapy profession.
Brendan shares his personal experiences with abuse, his journey to establishing boundaries, and the challenges faced by gay massage therapists. The discussion includes the impact of dating apps misrepresenting massage therapists and the importance of creating a safe and professional environment for clients. They conclude with the idea of starting a petition to address these issues, highlighting the significance of empathy, authenticity, and forgiveness in the healing process.
In this episode, Julie and Brendan:
- Combating Sexual Misconduct in Massage Therapy
- Supporting LGBTQ+ Voices in Massage Community
- Establishing Boundaries for Personal Protection
- Addressing Human Trafficking in U.S. States
Timestamps
[00:48] Trigger Warning and Topic Introduction [07:07] Finding Chosen Family and Establishing Boundaries [10:19] Sexual Misconduct in the Gay Community [12:03] Challenges Faced by Gay Massage Therapists [17:12] Addressing Misconceptions and Solutions [20:04] Human Trafficking in the US [20:41] Human Trafficking in the Gay Community [21:53] Safety Concerns in Massage Therapy [22:48] Empowering Clients with Boundaries [28:21] The Importance of Empathy and Support [30:23] Forgiveness and Personal Growth [36:33] Addressing Sexual Misconduct in the IndustryAbout the Brendan Carr
More About Brendan Carr
My name is Brendan Carr, I am a Massage Therapist and a graduate of Ke Kino Institute of Healing, with a year and a half of professional practice. However, my journey toward this work spans a lifetime. As a survivor of 17 years of psychological and physical abuse from my mother, sexual assault by someone I once called a ‘best friend,’ and overcoming alcohol addiction, I have found clarity in my life’s purpose: to transmute pain and heartbreak into unconditional love, personal growth, and radical self-acceptance. My practice blends corrective techniques, somatic bodywork, and emotional integration, all aimed at fostering deep healing and transformation. Notable influences on my work include: John James, Marni Matyus, The Upledger Institute, and Wilko Iedema, to name a few.
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